A
Discourse On Meekness and Quietness of Spirit
Abridged
from the Rev. Matthew Henry
Edited
by R.P. Woitowitz Sr.
A
meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. 1
Peter 3:4
Published
by the American Tract Society
THE
EXCELLENCY OF MEEKNESS
He enjoys
his friends
[T]hat
is a thing in which lies much of the comfort of human life. Man was
intended to be a sociable creature, and a Christian much more so. But
the angry man is unfit to be so, that takes fire at every
provocation; fitter to be abandoned to the lions' dens and mountains
of the leopards, than to go forth by the footsteps of the flock. He
that has his hand against every man, cannot but have, with Ishmael's
character, Ishmael's fate, "every man's hand against him,"
[Read Genesis 16:1] and so he lives in a state of war; but meekness
is the cement of society, the bond of Christian communion: it
planes and polishes the materials of that beautiful fabric, and makes
them lie close and tight, and the living stones which are built up a
spiritual house, to be like the stones of the temple that Herod
built, all as one stone, whereas, "Hard upon hard," as the
Spaniard's proverb is, "will never make a wall." Meekness
preserves among brethren that unity which is like the ointment upon
the holy head, and the dew upon the holy hill.(See Psalm
133:1-2). In our present state of imperfection, there can be no
friendship, correspondence, or conversation maintained without mutual
allowances; we do not yet dwell with angels or spirits of just men
made perfect, but with men subject to like passions. Now meekness
teaches us to consider this, and to allow accordingly; and so
distance and strangeness, feuds and quarrels are happily prevented,
and the beginnings of them crushed by a timely care. How necessary to
true friendship it is to surrender our passions, and to subject them
all to the laws of it, was perhaps intimated by Jonathan's delivering
to David his sword and his bow and his girdle, all his military
habiliments, when he entered in a covenant with him.
He
enjoys his God (a)
[T]hat
is most comfortable of all. It is the quintessence of all happiness,
and that without which all our other enjoyments are insipid; for this
none are better qualified than those who are arrayed with the
ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of
great price. It was when the psalmist had newly conquered an unruly
passion and composed himself, that he lifted up his soul to God in
that pious and pathetic breathing, "Whom have I in heaven but
thee? and there is none upon earth that I desire in comparison of
thee." [Read Psalm 73:25-26]. We enjoy God when we have the
evidences and the assurances of his favor, the tastes and tokens of
his love—when we experience in ourselves the communication of his
grace, and the continued instances of his image stamped upon us; and
this those that are most meek and quiet have usually in the greatest
degree. In our wrath and passion we give place to the devil, and so
provoke God to withdraw from us. Nothing grieves the Holy Spirit of
God, by whom we have fellowship with the Father, more than
"bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and evil-speaking."
[Read Ephesians 4:26-27](b). But to this man does the God of heaven
look with a peculiar regard, even to him that is poor, poor in
spirit, (See Isaiah 66:2): to him that is quiet, so the Syriac—to
him that is meek, so the Chaldee. [So they both read]. The great God
overlooks heaven and earth to give a favorable look to the meek and
quiet soul. Nay, he not only looks at such, but he "dwells"
with them; noting a constant intercourse and communion between God
and humble souls. His secret is with them; he gives them more grace;
and they that thus dwell in love, dwell in God, and God in them. The
waters were dark indeed, but they were quiet when the Spirit of God
moved upon them, and out of them produced a beautiful world.
This
calm and sedate frame very much qualifies and disposes us for the
reception and entertainment of divine visits; sets bounds to the
mountain on which God is to descend, (See Exodus 19:12), that no
interruption may break in; and charges the daughters of Jerusalem, by
the roes and the hinds of the field—those sweet and gentle and
peaceable creatures—not to stir up or awake our love till he
please. (See Songs 2:7). Some think it was for the quieting and
composing of his spirit, which seems to have been a little ruffled,
that Elisha called for the "minstrel," and then "the
hand of the Lord came upon him." Never was God more intimate
with any mere man than he was with Moses, the meekest of all the men
on the earth; and it was required as a needful qualification of the
high priest, who was to draw near to minister, that he should have
compassion on the ignorant, and on them that are out of the way. "The
meek will He guide in judgment" with a still small voice,
(c) which cannot be heard when the passions are loud and tumultuous.
The angry man when he awakes is still with the devil, contriving some
malicious project;(d), the meek and quiet man when he awakes is still
with God, solacing himself in his favor. "Return unto thy rest,
O my soul," says David, when he had reckoned himself among the
simple, that is, the mild, innocent, and inoffensive people. Return
to thy Noah, so the word is—for Noah had his name
from rest—perhaps alluding to the rest which the dove found with
Noah in the ark, when she could find none anywhere else. Those that
are harmless and simple as doves, can with comfort return to God as
to their rest. It is excellently paraphrased by Mr. Patrick,(e) "God
and thyself," my soul, "enjoy; in quiet rest, freed from
thy fears." It is said that "the Lord lifteth up the meek;"
as far as their meekness reigns they are lifted up above the stormy
region, and fixed in a sphere perpetually calm and serene. They are
advanced indeed that are at home in God, and live a life of communion
with him, not only in solemn ordinances, but even in the common
accidents and occurrences of the world. Every day is a Sabbath-day, a
day of holy rest with the meek and quiet soul, as one of the days of
heaven. As this grace gets ground, the comforts of the Holy Ghost
grow stronger and stronger, according to that precious promise, "The
meek also shall increase their joy in the Lord, and the poor among
men shall rejoice in the Holy One of Israel."
It
is not in the power of his enemies to disturb and interrupt him in
these enjoyments. His peace is not only sweet but safe and secure; as
far as he acts under the law of meekness, it is above the reach of
the assaults of those that wish ill to it. He that abides quietly
under "the shadow of the Almighty" shall surely be
delivered "from the snare of the fowler." The greatest
provocations that men can give would not hurt us if we did not, by
our inordinate and foolish concern, come too near them. We may
therefore thank ourselves if we be damaged. He that has learned with
meekness and quietness to forgive injuries and pass them by, has
found the best and surest way of baffling and defeating them; nay, it
is a kind of innocent revenge. It was an evidence that Saul was
actuated by another spirit, in that, when children of Belial despised
him and brought him no presents—hoping by that contempt to give a
shock to his infant government—he "held his peace," and
so neither his soul nor his crown received any disturbance. Shimei,
when he cursed David, intended thereby to pour vinegar into his
wounds, and to add affliction to the afflicted; but David, by his
meekness, preserved his peace, and Shimei's design was frustrated.
"So let him curse;" alas, poor creature, he hurts himself
more than David, who, while he keeps his heart from being tinder to
those sparks, is no more prejudiced by them than the moon is by the
foolish cur that barks at it. The meek man's prayer is that of David,
"Lead me to the rock that is higher than I," (See Psalm
61:2); and there I can, as Mr. Norris expresses it,
—smile
to see
The
shafts of fortune all drop short of me.
The
meek man is like a ship that rides at anchor—is moved, but not
removed: the storm moves it—the meek man is not a stock or stone
under provocation—but does not remove it from its port. It is a
grace that, in reference to the temptations of affront and injury—as
faith in reference to temptation in general—quenches the fiery
darts of the wicked: it is an armor of proof against the spiteful and
envenomed arrows of provocation, and is an impregnable wall to secure
the peace of the soul, where no thief can break through to steal;
while the angry man lays all his comforts at the mercy of every wasp
that will strike at him.
So
that, upon the whole, it appears that the ornament of a meek and
quiet spirit is as easy as it is comely.
(a)
– Editor's thought – Suggested reading of Psalms 32 & 34.
Both convey within themselves the joys of being an obedient servant
of God, and likewise, being rescued, forgiveness, and the receiving
of grace by Him through Christ Jesus.
(b)
– Notations from the GNV Translation Ed. 1560
He
teacheth us to bridle our anger in such sort, that although it be
not, yet that it break not out, and that it be straightway quenched
before we sleep, lest Satan taking occasion to give us evil counsel
through the wicked counselor, destroy us. [Secondly], If
it so fall out, that you be angry, yet sin not: that is, bridle your
anger, and do not wickedly put that in execution, which you have
wickedly conceived. [And
Finally], Let not the night come upon you in your anger, that is,
make atonement quickly for all matters.
(c)
– Be still and know I am God – Psalm 46:10
(d)
– How could one possibly hear the voice of God, by being
continually in tumultuous way? If one is constantly thinking upon
evil, the repaying of evil for good, or even evil, then you cannot
hear the wisdom in the voice of God. Therefore you cannot find the
peace you're seeking, nor the satisfaction either.
(e)
- This might be a reference to Patrick Delany who himself was a
contemporary of Matthew Henry. Patrick Delany, D.D. (1686 – 6 May
1768), was an Irish clergyman and described by A Compendium of Irish
Biography as "an eloquent preacher a man of wit and learning.
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